How I Got $1,200 Back for an Out-of-Network Fertility Visit
Last fall, I sat on the edge of a paper-lined exam table, blinking back tears while a doctor gently told me what I already knew: “We can try again.” It wasn’t the first failed fertility attempt. And it probably wouldn’t be the last. I’m 37, living in New York City, working a demanding job I actually love. I’ve built a full, beautiful life, but I’ve also spent the last year trying to carve out space in that life to become a mom. That’s not an easy task when the healthcare system seems designed to make it harder, especially for people like me with pre-existing conditions. In my case, it’s my thyroid. An autoimmune disorder I’ve managed for years, but one that quietly complicates fertility and what insurance will cover.



April 28, 2025